About Matt – M*A*T*E*

Welcome to E-Dating Solutions, your personal online dating mentor. Here we strive to meet the needs of anyone who finds online dating to be a disappointment. We know that people struggle with online dating and dating in general therefore, we mentor you so that you can achieve the success you are seeking from Online Dating Sites.


My name is Matt. I live and work in Northern New York. Several years ago I was fortunate enough to meet the love of my life on the internet. After facing common challenges such as dating across race, across country, and across culture, we now have two young boys and are always looking for new things to do together.

My wife and I will never forget just how fortunate we are to have found each other and we would like to use some of our time together to help others find the person that is perfect for them. My experiences, some very good and some very bad, have given me some insight into the many challenges associated with looking for love online.

I understand that not every online ‘dater’ is serious about finding Mr. or Mrs. right, however, for those that do want to find true love and a long-term relationship, I can make a difference in their online dating experience.


I know what it is like to struggle through online dating. I know what it feels like to have been out of the dating world for over a decade and then be thrust back on the scene because life as I knew it changed. I know and understand what it means to date outside my culture, outside my race. I know what it is like to date long-distance. I know and understand that despite the odds, you too can find and develop a long-lasting, worthwhile relationship if you have the right guidance. I wanted to share my life with someone to complete me and I know there are many people out there who want the same things.

You deserve happiness as much as I do and I want to help you achieve that through one on one mentor-ship.


With this site we have provided a platform for members to talk to each other about their online dating woes. We have found from experience that when you can vent about your troubles you can find solutions and comfort just from knowing that you are not alone in your struggles. Our dating support forum is where this is possible. Our standard free membership allows you to visit and participate in this forum for as long as you need support from the community.

Our platform also provides for connecting on a more personal level with members if you choose to do so. You may send private messages and share other information privately if you so desire. My only advice to you about sharing personal information is to proceed with caution.

Our blog is packed with relevant advice for people from varying background, and all walks of life. There is a plethora of information there for all online daters. Although advice is important and very helpful, nothing beats personal attention. We know that although everyone has similar problems, we are all unique and in many cases our circumstances are also unique. This makes it more important than ever to seek individual help if you are struggling.

The paid features of this site are the Dating expert help, Profile assistance and the “What are you looking for questionnaire.” These features are paramount in mentoring you toward success.

If you ever need a hand or have any questions, feel free to leave them below and I will be more than happy to help you out.

All the best,