Singles Travel

singles-travel-e-dating-solutions-comTraveling is part of the online dating experience to some extent. At some point in a successful online relationship, one or both parties must take the next step toward being a united couple. The question often arises as to which point, in an online relationship, the traveling should begin. Should you wait until commitments are voiced, or travel to visit your online interest in the beginning stages? And then there is the question of how far you should travel to meet your online connection. We must think of all the negatives and positives involved in decisions such as these. What can be gained, and what possible dangers could we face when singles travel? As with most decisions, there are no simple answers. Everyone is different and in different situations. We all must choose what works best for ourselves, however, there are a few things that are good for people no matter what their situation is. If you know what to look for and how to turn even a failed encounter into a positive experience, then your decisions will become clearer. Not only will you be able to answer some of these common questions more easily, but you will enjoy more life experiences in the process.

Very few people have the time or resources to travel to every person that they meet while online dating. It is not practical and I would never advise you to do so. In some cases, the burden can be reduced when both parties agree to meet each other halfway. This reduces the expense and timesingles-travel-e-dating-solutions-com involved in the travel. It also puts each person in a new environment and promotes exploration of the area together. It would become a judgment on your part as to whether the online interest that you are thinking of is worthy of your efforts. In my opinion, some kind of commitment is warranted before travel begins, especially longer distances. Certainly not a serious commitment, such as marriage plans, rather an agreement to give the relationship due diligence. An equal enthusiasm to see the relationship through if there is any connection that makes a future plausible. Even then, it is most important to exercise caution in all that you do. Make sure everything you plan is in your best interest and is as safe as possible.

The world is a very large place. To travel anywhere in the world is a matter of time and money. It’s not a surprise when singles travel to the next city to find love, but it is shocking to some that there are people that are willing to travel to the other side of the world for the same reason. I think of it in a different way. If a person is thorough and cautious about their travel plans, they can look forward to more than just meeting their online date in person. Travel is done for many reasons that are singles-travel-e-dating-solutions-comgood for us. We can arrange our travels so that we are learning about a different culture. We can see sights that many people may never take the time to explore. Even experience atmospheres or cuisines that would normally be just a curiosity for us. In the best-case scenario, we would be doing these things with the one that we traveled such a distance to meet. Traveling to meet your online date, no matter what distance, is best when you plan for yourself. Hope for the best and prepare for the worst. Have a backup plan that involves seeing, doing, and learning things that you will appreciate for the rest of your life. You should always expect traveling to have its challenges and be prepared to face them. It is the fear of the unknown that keeps many people from making new acquaintances and seeing different places. In both cases, it limits a person’s ability to find love and also gather life experiences that you will never forget.

Online relationships, almost always, result in some kind of traveling. There are some that find their partner in the same town, but more often there is a greater distance to overcome. Singles travel for many reasons other than dating but it seems to be a bigger decision when speaking of finding love. There are the obvious restraints to travel such as financial concerns, having the time in our schedules, obligations such as children to consider, and so on. At some point in everyone’s life, there should be a time where our own happiness is a priority. Even the most dedicated and responsible person can be happier and more engaged in daily life when they pay some attention to themselves. Because of this, traveling to meet someone that you’re interested in is something to make into a goal. There is also much more to gain in traveling than meeting your potential life partner, therefore, plan ahead and have an experience just for yourself.

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6 Replies to “Singles Travel”

  1. I would also like to add that people who are planning to meet someone from online should be very clear as to who they are meeting also. It is great that two people connect online and are finally meeting in the real world. However, if setups are not done right then a lot of embarrassments can happen. For example, lets say the other person has a profile picture that is actually ten years younger than their current self, then they should post a recent picture of themselves. I am not saying that people should be superficial and only judge from appearance. However, both parties should be honest and trust that their charm and positive vibe will allow them to impress the other partner without relying on natural appearances. This way, when two online partners meet, they already have a foundation of trust to work, and nothing wiill shock and ruin their hard to build rapport.

    1. Hi Win,

      Thank you for your comment. I absolutely agree that people should be honest about themselves. I know one of the most frequent complaints that I see from people who are online dating is that the picture does not match the person they meet. I find this odd in a way because if someone hopes to truly make a lasting connection, there is no way that using a deceptive photograph will lead to a positive outcome. It breeds distrust from the beginning. I know it is possible that a person may gain or lose weight since the photo that they posted, but they can at least inform their potential partner that they have gained or lost weight since the photo. This also extends to hair color, length, and any number of things that may differ from the photos posted on their profiles.

  2. Hi, great post. Have been wondering about this question a lot recently myself. I live in a small city and there doesn’t appear to be many people from my region on the dating site I am currently using. I am thinking about traveling but how far would say is feasible, based on your own experience? I don’t mind 2-3 hours, but I’m thinking someone in another country is probably too far?

    1. Hi Oliver, 

      Thank you for your comment. Everyone’s situation is different. My wife was over a thousand miles away when we met online. For me that was not a problem, but for some people it would be, and that is perfectly okay. In your case, you know that your distance boundary is 2-3 hours away. You should ask yourself, why 2-3 hours away is your maximum distance. Is it because you are anticipating having to travel that distance regularly? Are you against travelling long distances? What if the woman is willing to come to you, would it make a difference? How and why? Would it make a difference if the woman was willing to travel the same distance to meet you? That way, you could potentially expand your search to 4-6 hours away from you, if you meet each other half-way. That could expand your search radius greatly, don’t you think?

      If you are willing to look as far as a few hours from your current location, does that also mean you cannot or would not be open to moving if you meet someone of interest? I know these are a lot of questions, but if you can answer them it’ll give you a bit of clarity about why you feel the way you do and what your limits are. There was no limit for me personally. I went after the woman that I wanted and she came back home with me. Now I don’t have to travel to be with her.

  3. I have used some dating sites in the past and can relate to some of the topics that are touched on here. My sister actually got married last year with an individual she met online through a dating site. This site is unique in that it covers more information behind dating online, not just pushing dating sites themselves. The resources found here help to inform individuals on how they should proceed with online dating.

    1. Thank you for the comment Andrew. My goal is to provide everyone with the resources and advice they need to find love online, and not limit themselves or settle for someone who is conveniently located near them. Online dating allows you to find and get to know more people than we would be able to otherwise, which is great even if a relationship doesn’t begin with them. Once people begin to see how helpful dating sites can be and the stigma gradually goes away, many more people with find success like your sister has. 

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